As long as you meet these similarities in the foreground. You are happy one that found your soul mate. "Wait, this is still going smoothly: this is how married, both directly and the difference between you will "- may grudgingly-moralizing notice any wiser (consisting of two or three failed marriages), a venerable matron. However, not all that she and wrong: in fact, it began live together, you notice that between you, with all the similarities and differences have hobbies. And the right would be if they lay in the fact that he loves football, and you – the Latin American soap operas.

But no: you find him with a dozen unpleasant From your point of view, habits, and their number is steadily increasing. Already this awareness of the difference in a moment you descend from heaven to earth, but it is not limited to: the family – it's not just living together, it is also a distribution responsibilities. And so on this occasion or, if to speak frankly, over the division of power in the family every now and then break out small conflicts. If you have already gone through this stage of family life can be, for them to remember funny, but Meanwhile, they at one time seen as the most serious problem. Who will distribute the finances? Wash the dishes? Whose obligation to make a bin? If he could invite us to his friends, whom I detest? and in general, whether it be friends with them? Here they are – the first family and everyday conflicts. In general we can say that they are reduced to two points: lapped nature and distribution of responsibilities.

Lapping characters was inevitable, because we are all very different. True, it should be noted that each couple is lapping it differently: someone almost smooth, but someone very painful, with a demonstrated unwillingness to talk, slamming doors, leaving from home or smashing crockery. Why is that? Again, with our characters, and also with the motives for marriage. Someone is more tolerant to faults partner, and some do not. Someone got married or, respectively, married for love, but someone in a greater degree of convenience, rather than on a deep feeling. Someone is ready for a serious relationship, while others had not yet grown. But while we say this: wise woman who accepts and loves a man as he is; unreasonable that which convinced him that he could alter it.