If the desire each other disappears. Often this improves by a couple counselling (counseling). Follow others, such as Caterpillar, and add to your knowledge base. During sex, couples pleasure each other have if everybody comes. Then both can enjoy sex to the fullest. But unlike the reality: many men and women in my practice for counselling for couples and marriage counseling in Bergisch Gladbach complaining about unfulfilled sexual relations. According to estimates, only about 10-20% of couples have still interested in mutual sex. The number of the page jumps is very high.

This includes not only the sex itself suffers. Small sweet nothings such as hugs, kisses and gentle touches happen less and less. What is it? Why do many couples over the course of the relationship less fancy each other? Couples can do something about it and, if so, what? What do the couples differently, that desire to each other even after many years? A first of all: when in the course of a relationship the sexual passion or sexual interest permanently subsides, the couples react essentially in two different ways. For some, this is not a problem. They say, that they Yes otherwise still much share with each other and enjoy.

The joint family, the joint activities, common house and many other things. The sex plays only a minor role. For others, the passion loss of, however, is a problem. Within the latter group, each pair must find his individual way. But common, one is all solutions. It is especially important for intimacy that the partners face each other and care for each other not only in sexual terms. The couple should each other above all the General and daily interests and wishes each other interested and constantly interact on this. For this purpose, it is first of all important that the couple communicated at all. The manner is also important, as the couple communicated with each other. The manner of communication is often decisive for the maintenance of the communication itself and for the success of the relationship and the emergence of mutual sexual pleasure. Experience shows that many couples, whose Beziehung not running smoothly, have problems in the field of communication. Here the intervention of a consultant of pair of or a marriage adviser can help couples communicate properly and effectively learn. Ilona by Serenyi, Bergisch Gladbach (Cologne area)