A timely reaction to time is always vital when it comes to escape a relationship marked by physical abuse. Given the terrible situation of those characteristics, the victim may be at a significantly hazard does not act quickly. However, there is a tendency among good part of those who have suffered in their own skin abuse and violence by her partner to finish seeing them as something everyday in his life, or even a relapse once they have abandoned that even couple, returning with her. So, if you had been yourself / a victim of domestic violence, should try to avoid as far as possible certain errors that occur all too often between people who have gone through situations similar to yours: 1. Firstly, should not consider or expect that there are other people who should get you out of your abusive relationship.

Will mainly be your decisive action which may put an end to this abuse that you come suffering, although this for You can count on the support of your loved ones, and even of associations and institutions of a public character. Ultimately, regain your honor and self-esteem is something that anyone can do for you. 2. No you should never cling to empty promises of change shown by your partner. You will probably try apologize a thousand times, making sure that their acts of violence will not be repeated in the future, and that you are the most important thing in his life.

However, reality shows that the risk of recidivism in these situations is very high. And the fact of not having escaped will cause that you stay, mostly at the mercy of that person even, since this will end up thinking that you’ll never respond to their abuses. 3 You should avoid, to the extent possible, devise your own life from the perspective of a victim of abuse, because you could end up pigeonhole you into a position that you would be very difficult to overcome. In other words, if you mantuvieras your victim status, you may end up falling again and again in abusive relationships such as the one that cost you so much escape (even with the same person who fled a day). If you can avoid these three common mistakes, you will face a new life marked by security and the absence of abuse. Begona basin Alcaine original author and source of the article.